Tips for handling rejection using Restart Smart Thinking. You have to believe in YOU!

Tips for handling rejection are many, everyone has at least one. We have seen books, web sites and elderly Aunts who freely offer sage advice, yes sure fire tips for handling rejection. Problem is with all this advice what are you to do?

What makes Restart Smart different?

We offer you two, pieces of advice. That’s it only two (ok so maybe we expand upon the two pieces of advice and it seems like more) But for your convenience here are our tips for handling rejection.

 First it happens, accept it!

 Second, embrace it!

Let’s talk about acceptence. It happens! No one knows that more than we do. Is it nice, pleasant, deserved or wanted, NO! Yet it is something that we all have to deal with.

Restart Smart Thinking will now take over.

Common sense says handling rejection is a fact of life and falling apart over it is about as beneficial as fishing without bait. Ok so we were lost for a great analogy.  Accept the fact that tipsfor handling rejection are attempts to be warm and fuzzy, when in reality life is not. Face it life is all about rejection. Harsh you say? We respectfully disagree. Everyday we make choices that allow us to reject or accept a thought or an action. Folks who give you tips for handling rejection are trying to soften an action that helps us get through this life. Restart Smart does not buy into that approach.

When you are engulfed in pain, self loathing, anger, despair (you know the stuff that makes you want to eat the foods the Doc said you shouldn’t) try to remember that someday you will look back on this “grief” and tell your story to someone else in an attempt to make them laugh.  It’s what we all do. Trust us like “they say” (don’t you wish you were “they”)…if it doesn’t kill you it makes you
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Don’t be fooled by those other tips for handling rejection, remember you are class “A” material you are not a loser and you have to believe and understand life, by now we should be old enough.

How can we offer tips for handling rejection when we say that you have to accept it because that’s life. Then we encourage you to embrace it. Let us explain (we have a resident expert who has definite opinions on giving tips for handling  rejection and he won't quit bothering us until we let him speak).

If we are not handling rejection then our life is nothing more than an emotional cocktail comprising of among other things anger, discouragement, the feeling of unworthiness and hurt feelings. Nothing we haven’t experienced before, and we survived!

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Restart Smart tips for handling rejection include knowledge, humor and that thing called common sense.

You drink from that emotional cocktail we described and all you will accomplish is nothing. That’s right those emotions lead to a lack of action. Just you sitting at the bar of life crying in self pity. OUCH! Sorry but our expert who gives tips for handling rejection can be like sandpaper on Jell-O (we really need to get better material) you know what we’re talking about (I’m not worthy so why should I try kind of attitude!)

This lack of action will guarantee failure, which lends itself to the self fulfilling (looking in the mirror yes I am sub-par talk) which then leads to more inaction? Get the picture?

Then use this knowledge and break the cycle.
You can make a list of all the tips for handling rejection you want. You can read all the books ever printed on the subject. You can listen to all the tapes that offer tips for handling rejection but none of it will work!
Unless you believe in YOU! Restart Smart tips for handling rejection believes in you, what say you?